CalExotics Original Butterfly Kiss Vibrator - Multi-Speed Waterproof Vibe Adult Sex Toys for Couples - Clitoral G Spot

4/23/13 Update Well, a good amount of time has gone by since my initial review. What a piece of crap. I've totally changed my mind... Hah! Kidding! This thing has changed our sex life. Seriously. This was so good that it opened her up to other new stuff. Example: She's traveling on business and will return this Saturday after having been gone for three weeks. We managed to video phone a few days ago and she actually took off her top for me on camera and played with her jugs a little. I can assure you, that would NOT have happened a year ago! We've accumulated a number of toys now and I avoid this one a little because it is SO good that its easy to get addicted to. I like to keep her guessing. But since getting it, she now welcomes other types and enjoyes penetration with them. So far, all have vibrated -- but tonight I'm online shopping for some adult welcome home gifts we can both enjoy. They will be large and overtly penis like (which she never would have accepted before this toy!). Again -- this friggin' Butterfly Kiss thing has changed the whole calculus for sex in our house. And its coming out at the end in a big way when she gets home! Enough gushing about the possiblities. Here's what makes this so good. 1) The bulb on the end: she loves how it feels when its knocking on the door, then stretches her and then pops in. 2) It feels awesome to her once it pops in and presses in and up against her gspot. 3) she squirms when the fluttery wings and antennae start to contact and caress her lips and bud. 4) she start pushing and spreading to get more when the vibrations come on. And this goes against her self conscious, conservative attitude toward enjoying something like this. Its so good she just can't help herself. All I have to do is tell her, "its OK, Baby; I've got you. Take it, enjoy it. You're mine and I'm going to take you later but I'm going to give this to you now. This is my gift to you. Accept it and enjoy it..." and by this time, she's actually crying out and doesn't care who can hear her! California Exotics -- You rock! J. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I only considered buying this for my wife and I because of some of the other reviews. The short version of the review is, "Wow!" The longer version requires some background. She is very conservative and has strong feelings about what is "OK" or "appropriate" in the romance area. It was only in our 14th year of marriage that I was able to introduce a plaything into our relationship - an item call the Screaming O (the husband wears it, so its not like a replacement which would feel wrong to her). She initially accepted it because she found out her friend liked it and then grew to like it because of the "results" it produced. Since then, I've tried lots of other things with her - usually by way of surprise. The buzzy/vibraty things for external use generally work out OK. Dildos or anything that gets inserted, vibraty or otherwise, have been a no-go. I've tried very thin vibes, thick ones, even the "We-Vibe." My hobby has become trying to figure her out because, as her spouse, I truly do enjoy delivering her pleasure and something with batteries is more effective for her than just me alone! So, last month, I saw several interesting toys and decided to splurge on my hobby! One of the four was useless and anatomically ridiculous. Another was ok - a very thin aluminum vibe. The third I have not tried with her yet. But this one, the Butterfly Kiss -- well, again, "Wow!" She had no idea what it looked like (would have been scared off for sure!) so when the time came, I kept the room dark and told her I had a buzzy surprise for her. She said nothing. I could tell she was suspicious but she indulged me. I turned it on and started with the rounded end outside (basically on her tummy) and the flat part gently "against her." Very soon I was shocked that she was pushing herself against it (unusual for her to respond so overtly) so I rotated it such that the flat part was on top (on her tummy) and the rounded part against her (perpendicular) -- and she responded even more favorably! So I moved it with her motions so the rounded part started to slip inside and the flat part against her -- and Wow!, were there ever fireworks. Thinking this might have been an aberration, I tried it again two days ago with even more favorable results -- she aggressively reciprocated by engaging in the one activity that is nearly every man's dream -- which she had not done for our entire marriage (18 years now!) -- and she was darn good at it!!! OK. 'Nuff said. I'll close with two comments: 1) Thank You! California Exotics!!!! 2) If you are married, stop considering and just BUY THIS THING. Its Amazing!!!! Read more

Lets be honest ladies... does size REALLY matter. No. its how you use it. the only reason we like "things" bigger, if you catch my drift, is because men sooo often miss the mark and if its bigger the chances of hitting the target are greater! I get tired of seeing sex toys that example girth and length like Im an endless tunnel. I prefer things that hit right where they are supposed to and hit it right. This toy must have been built by a woman or tested on one tons of times because it is simple, compact, and packs one hell of a happy punch. To start: 1)the butterfly shape is genius. It surrounds just the right area and even if you jostle it around a bit it still is making continuous contact in the right spot. 2) the part that inserts is very flexible and then ends in a ball. I love the flexibility because I can push it into the myself and hit what I want to. all women have different bodies and I imagine this feature is great at getting to everyones g-spot. the ball point ending is a good length and is soft so it is always comfortable when in use. believe it or not I have hurt myself in excitement with some toys that are more formed and harder, and this just doesnt have that issue. 3)it has no craziness or frills it is what it is and it works great in its simplicity. I like the more compact size. 4) It doesnt smell. I recently bought a Doc Johnson jelly dildo and I literally have to lock it away because it smells like a toxic synthetic plastic if its not put away. this is not toxic. 5) the three settings are great. the first I call teaser vibration. the foreplay. the second is where I like to plateau at for a while, brinking, and the third is where I like to kick it up and go nuts. a firework ending if you will. some vibrators either hurt or you cant feel. I can use every setting on this and derive pleasure with each This is so inexpensive compared to what is out there and it is worth every penny. i have not used mine in the water but it says that it is waterproof.. I tend to be wary of submerging things but maybe one day Ill give it a go... The only drawback, for me, is that it takes AAA batteries and I never have those laying around. one day in the middle of using it, and it goes out, Im going to be a very sad camper. stole the ones in it right now from my remote... buy and enjoy! Read more