THE POWER OF SHOWING UP Bagaimana Kehadiran Orangtua Membentuk Pribadi Anak Ketika Dewasa dan Cara Saraf-Saraf Otak Mereka Bekerja Optimal cover

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Daniel J. Siegel, M.D.,Tina Payne Bryson, PhD

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THE POWER OF SHOWING UP Bagaimana Kehadiran Orangtua Membentuk Pribadi Anak Ketika Dewasa dan Cara Saraf-Saraf Otak Mereka Bekerja Optimal

by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D.,Tina Payne Bryson, PhD

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Mengasuh anak itu jelas tidak mudah. Tapi, mendampingi anak, dan benar-benar ada di sampingnya itu jauh lebih mudah. Dan nyatanya, dampak terbesar dimulai justru ketika Anda berada di tempat Anda sekarang, di hadapan anak Anda dan dirasakan kehadirannya. Bagaimana setiap anak akan menjadi—dalam hal kebahagiaan, kesuksesan akademis, kepemimpinan, dan memiliki hubungan yang bermakna—sangat ditentukan oleh setidaknya satu orang dewasa dalam hidup mereka yang secara konsisten muncul dan selalu ada untuk mereka. Di zaman yang padat jadwal dan penuh distraksi digital, selalu ada untuk anak Anda mungkin terdengar seperti tugas yang sangat sulit. Akan tetapi, seperti yang dijelaskan secara meyakinkan oleh penulis buku terlaris Daniel Siegel dan Tina Payne Bryson, sebenarnya hal itu tidak menuntut banyak waktu, energi, atau uang. Sebaliknya, showing up berarti menawarkan kualitas kehadiran. Setiap anak perlu merasakan apa yang disebut Siegel dan Bryson sebagai Empat S: • Safe (terlindungi): Kita tidak selalu dapat melindungi anak dari cedera atau menghindari melakukan sesuatu yang mengarah pada perasaan terluka. Tetapi ketika kita memberi pada anak rasa terlindungi, aman, dan nyaman, maka dia akan mampu mengambil risiko yang diperlukan untuk bertumbuh dan menghadapi perubahan. • Seen (terlihat): Benar-benar melihat seorang anak berarti kita memperhatikan emosinya—baik positif maupun negatif—dan berusaha menyesuaikan diri dengan apa yang terjadi di dalam benaknya di balik perilakunya. • Soothed (ditenangkan): Diberi ketenangan bukan tentang memberikan kehidupan yang nyaman. Ini tentang mengajari anak Anda bagaimana cara mengatasi ketika hidup menjadi sulit, dan menunjukkan kepadanya bahwa Anda akan berusaha selalu ada bersamanya di sepanjang perjalanan—bahwa dia tidak akan pernah menderita sendirian. • Secure (aman): Ketika seorang anak tahu bahwa dia dapat mengandalkan Anda akan selalu muncul dan menemani—ketika Anda memberikan rasa aman, fokus untuk melihat hanya kepadanya, dan menenangkannya pada saat dibutuhkan—anak akan percaya pada perasaan kelekatan yang aman. Dan terus berkembang! The Power of Showing Up berbagi cerita, percakapan, strategi sederhana, ilustrasi, dan tip untuk menerapkan Empat S secara efektif dalam berbagai jenis situasi. Buku ini adalah panduan yang ampuh untuk mengembangkan lanskap emosional anak yang sehat. #ThePowerOfShowingUp #BukuParenting #PolaAsuhAnak #KehadiranOrangtua #PerkembanganAnak #PsikologiAnak #DanielJSiegel #TinaPayneBryson #KesehatanEmosionalAnak #TipsParenting #HubunganOrangtuaAnak #ElexMediaKomputindo

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2022-07-21

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